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Friday saw me swap a night run for a night walk through London's night life. It was cold but beautiful and I had a chilled out time. Besides the darkness, light and atmosphere eclipsed by the people passing under light, it was real calm but energetic too, but I guess because I wasn't involved in the energy itself merely absorbing it passively, it was calming. Life is what happens whether you want it to and you can't pause it. So you might as well not need it to. As the approach towards South Bank slowly appeared and we had left the idillic calmness of the streets, Christmas became us. All along the bank are little cabins, each selling something with Christmas music playing in the background as people move down the bank from each stall to the next. This was all very serious stuff - very elaborate and decorated ornaments on the stalls and a lot if investment must have been put into making it look as good as possible. It was impressive to see. I had a German Sausage(it was called something else but I can't remember it now) and I eat it on the bank, overlooking the Thames. My friend from work was so impressed and she did a good job of documenting everything snapping it all up. Basically there was so much stuff, lights flashing, colours, people and things to look up at, it was difficult to concentrate your eyes anywhere specifically so I needed to bring it down a bit: I headed into South Bank center and ordered a Hot Chocolate, a couple of treats and watched it all from above this time while behind me, young student dancers were in the through of rehearsing their dance moves while I looked on. I'd previously only been in there once before while on a run in tandem with my then running partner and was enlightened to it. You know, I guess it must have been all a but much for me but I got tired real quick and it was not planned to take the 2 hour detour that we took but that was ok. We were near Waterloo and with the ferocious London Eye looking down in entirely red, I figured it was time to wrap this evening and put it under the tress... After I boarded the train home I wondered about stuff generally and listened to Red Hot Chili Pepers' playlist.
Speaking of Red Hot Chili Pepers, I went on a team outing the previous day for Bowling and Karaoke. I thought the Karaoke was a joke. It wasn't. After the bowling, in which I didn't do particularly well and was more concerned with ensuring I left the ball go and not going with it...if you know what I mean.
Karaoke was a sealed room, two microphones and your team. It frightened the life out of me and never have I Ben quite so uncomfortable. Even the disco light in the top right corner seemed to be somewhat anxious. I'd never sung before and apart from perhaps in the shower but even that is not common. I watched in horror as a few sang things that I knew nothing of. eventually I realised that I'd better get over it and get something from it. I found Oasis Wonderwall in the play book and well that was it, I was up there bellowing the most dreadful but fairly on cue rendition of Wonderwall. I kinda enjoyed it. It's real unusual to hear your own voice and then to broadcast it in high definition at high sound. After that I added a 2nd number to my name with By The Way by Red Hot Chili Peppers being my next victim. The next day, while minding my own business, I heard a tinny-sounding notice bleating from someone's cell phone behind me. Soon it became apparent that it was a full video recording of my Wonderwall attempt. I died a little inside but I embraced it as being 'an experience' which to be fair was what it was. I can share it here but it's scary. Scary but fun. Nothing wrong with that.
Saturday was good, I slept in. Got up and did my Friday run on Saturday. Built up a GPS route with waypoints and saved it into my Suunto. I knew where to go but I got kicks following the route drawn up on it. I spent the rest of the day alternating between my TV and laptop via the sofa and desk respectively.
Sunday I slept in. I took my neighbour and her Daughter to lunch. I had a steak, apple pie and two cups of tea. Funny how I remember that - the food I eat... I got a 2nd helping later that evening to a custom made Apple crumble which apparently is quite different to the Apple pie I had for dessert earlier due to fabric and construction of the crust. I was not complaining. After that, I watched the Simpsons and saw Katy Perry make a cameo appearance. Made some headway on an issue with my site but its still in progress. Grabbed a smoothie and went to bed.
I also went to the Guildhall today during a walk for lunch. really impressive building see blog picture...
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A while back, I had an awesome Sunday. Saturday I setup a table in the living room. Since Ive moved in there has been this glass panel thats been leaning against one of the walls in there rather non-conspicuously. That, and well another set of weird stands that I hid in my room, at the foot of my bed. The landlord said it was for a glass table. Oh really...
To be quite honest, I couldnt for the life of me see, initially, how the hell this glass panel and two stands equate into a table. Saturday had glass table written up all over it. I placed the two wierd non-glass table looking stands on the flood and wondered about the floor trying to conceptionally place the glass panel and these two metal stand things in my head. I stood around for a while. I even sat down and pondered it. I couldnt figure it out, I started thinking that my abilities of logic and reason where evading me. Out of pure desperation, I went and looked in the basement(were going to call it a basement but basically its unused stair case going nowhere from under the kitchen counter). I came across a beam, that had the same non-tablenses that those two other stands had: there was consistency! I took it, placed it on the floor along the other suspects. It started to make sense, a little: it needed another beam of the same untableness for it to start looking complete. I went down to the basement in search. I found it, buried under some stuff and due fully brought it up to what had now seemed like a murder scene, sorta like a line up. Anyway, with the last part if the puzzle all in place, my logic and reason came back from their leave if absence. It was now the complete armature for a glass table! Fantastic. Wait. There are no bolts to put it altogether - right off to the hardware store. I eventually got the right fittings and made my way home. I fitted it all together and bang I had a glass table. I wont mention, oh but I will, that in my basement investigations, I found yet another table, also in hiding, concealed and non-conspicuous almost like I had discovered a breed of table. I have a glass table now, very conspicuous but nicely so. To celebrate my DIY mastery, I went out and wondered into a clothes store that had a coat that I had my eye on for weeks. I bought it: took it to the counter and the dude said was I a member of the VIP program. I wasnt so I said I wasnt. He said that if I was Id get the coat 30% off. Oh right, unlucky I guess.
He said that wed just say I was right... so he gave me a 30% discount. That was pretty sweet. He liked my Chicago white socks top, and I told him where I got it from. I kinda felt I needed to give back something, so my secret jacket outlet was revealed. Oh well. I also popped into Argos to get a fold up chair. Thatd really complete the lineup.
That was Saturday. Sunday was better because, I sat at my table in all its newly assembled glory all day and programmed, geeked out and had some good computer and technology fun again! And I realised, I really needed that glass table. Well done Stuart! Its the small seemingly boring, that when i get so much out if them fascinate me the most.
Decided to start listening to Red Hot Chili peppers today in the tube to work - I woke up wanting that. Is that very bizarre? I didnt sleep all that well, 79% apparently. Look thats not that bad but Im not keen on it hampering me today. -insert- So as it happens i went for my run and I dont know if it was because of my sleeping hiccup but I had a stitch the whole time, funny though it wasnt bad time wise - I compared the stats from the previous run I did and it was actually pretty close. So maybe just a bad run, huh?
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I was thinking about how Christmas is just around the corner and the extraordinary relief that there is no risk of stress for me, well not that I know of anyway. Point I'm making is that since I've started living Solo, I've been less inclined to have to do stuff, especially stuff I don't really want to do. And it's being able to deliver this to fruition that's awesome and perhaps selfish but hey, know ones living my life but me and I may as well to what I want! The time for being guilty for who you are and what you want is past.
Got a good quote sent to me by my mom via email. Which indicates two things right off the bat. One, yes that's an email from my mom who has apparently given into becoming the hippest granny since, well forever and is handling her blackberry with intriguing finesse. The other thing is that it probably means that it's probably a good quote she's sending me. According to her, Bertrand (Arthur William) Russel, 3rd Earl Russel said:
"The secret of happiness is this: let your interests be as wide as possible; and let your reactions to the things and persons that interest you be as far as possible friendly than hostile".
That's pretty right methinks, and mostly you can't go too wrong agreeing with someone who has been quoted. But really, two rules in life I have that relate to this is: Always be polite and don't be rude. Never mind the time, situation or whatever never be rude and always be polite. It will you feel better. And you will be better for it.
Besides that, I received another wedding invite. As I said once before, these are in at the moment. Want some more intriguing news? Well, there is the I change I made recently to my cereal - to the non-sugar variety and boy must the sugar variety been pumping the sugar in because now it tastes like flour, with a couple of homeless raises thrown in for good measure. That said, the new Almond milk in pretty great stuff. Oh and I also rekindled my love for the film, Captain something and his mandolin. Great film. This was watched during the great unmovement of Saturday. Pretty good. I also watched The Thing, but lost confidence in it as soon as the frozen thing unfroze eat the dog.
I avoided the outside for most of the weekend, except I did venture outside to get warmer...bizarre right? Well I ran out of gas and that sucked, so I trotted rather happily down the road in my new cosy coat and topped up. After that it must had an semi-severe impact on me as I didn't touch the outside until my Sunday stumble to the gym and subsequent run home. I tell you, I had the best weekend in weeks!!l
The thing about life is, and this has been said before, is that life happens while you are busy planning it. It gets me stop and think about my life and how I'm planning it and am I ok with it right now or am I saying my life will be ok when this or that comes true or is reached in the future? Planning seems at times is like a deception, a warp of your sense of time and a stop gap to represent all that isn't good right now but gives us pleasure knowing that its probable or destined to be,according to us, in the future and as such we loose sight of the present.
I did order a body fat monitor at the weekend and I was explaining to someone yesterday during my lunch break how useful it would be for calibrating how ones diet, exercise and routine are contributing to fat loss etc. I was expecting to arrive yesterday as I paid for guaranteed delivery but frustratingly it didn't arrive as should have according to the estimate. It's a small matter. But thinking about it, on principle it's frustrating as I paid extra to get it on a specific day which was a non run day. Goes to show of expectation setting can, no matter how small the matter, when not met can really bother you. I'll have to run home it today. Should be ok, bit clunky but it should be fine: It's only a handheld like a Xbox controller.
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